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- Ajashki | My Site
What is the Ajashki Project? The Ajashki Learning Centre is a response to The Truth and Reconciliation Commission's call to action, the United Nations sustainable development goal #2 to end poverty, and UNDRIP's effort to reduce systemic racism. It was created as a special reconciliation project of FirstU and has evolved into a program and operates as a youth collective. The word "Ajashki" means soil in Algonquin. The Ajashki Learning Centre offers paid employment and skills development for youth. The youth are employed to create, build and maintain the food gardens on the campus, Operate and maintain the grow towers, make products to sell for our makerspace program and help with other activities such as; cooking, cleaning, making art, workshops and fundraising. The youth are of mixed indigenous and non-indigenous heritage to promote relationship building in the spirit of reconciliation. The Ajaski gardens are registered as a "heart garden" with the First Nations Child & Family Caring Society, as a way to remember and honour the lives lost at residential schools. What started as 4 veggie garden beds back in 2021 has grown into a large functioning garden complete with rain water collection system from the roof of the church, 8 compost bins, 16 fruit and veggie beds, a native plant garden, a shade garden, apple and pear trees, the RE garden for the children, a collection of First nations murals, a collection of Inuit murals and a squirrel protector 3000 to protect the produce from critters. Ajashki continues to grow, learn and educate about food security and climate change. What's Growing On with the Ajashki Project? On October 10th, 2024, Ajashki hosted their end-of-season Harvest Celebration and unveiled the three new murals, by Inuk artist Aija Komangapik. Guest speakers included Christopher Church, manager of the Youth Program at Tungasuvvingat Inuit and Canadian Inuit Olympic Gold Medal winner of the High Kick, and hip hop artist Northern Knowledge, who is also the founder of Strong Minded Inuit, a youth-led initiative that uses music, art, language, and culture as a positive outlet that provides Inuit cultural awareness, training, and life promotion through workshops and musical performances Delicious Country Food was provided by Tungasuvvingat Inuit, Whiteduck Farm, and the Ajashki garden, with Ajashki's Future Food Warriors cooking up Caribou soup, bannock, and gluten-free fry bread. Climate Champion Award In 2023, Ecology Ottawa, the city's leading environmental organization, offered a series of ECO AWARDS. We're so pleased to announce that the Ajashki Food Security and Climate Change Learning Centre has been recognized with a Climate Champion Award! "First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa is showing strong leadership by supporting the Ajashki Food Security and Climate Change Learning Centre conceived by Elder Verna McGregor. This Special Reconciliation Project will now expand to include the Ontario Aboriginal Housing Service in a Land Back Initiative so they can build Affordable Housing for Indigenous People on this Campus beside Ajashki." ~ Community Member Ajashki Garden Project Recognized by SOUL! We’re excited to announce that the Ajashki Garden Project has received a Greener Greenspace award from the Society for Organic Urban Landcare (SOUL)! The project was particularly recognized for its use of urban space as a tool to educate youth on food security, as well as by the impressive transformation of the site in just 24 months! Kayoki Whiteduck, the Ajashki Gardener, has since presented at SOUL's Greener Green Spaces webinar series. Kakitigejik - The Gardener Kayoki Whiteduck Kayoki is an Algonquin Anishinabe farmer from Kitigan Zibi. He is a man with a vision to teach other Indigenous youth how to grow their own food, in an effort to address food insecurity in urban First Nation communities. Kayoki is a strong advocate for sustainable, regenerative permaculture, farming and gardening practices. He has received a Certificate in Horticulture from Camosun College in Victoria, B.C. and has studied Western Herbalism at the International Academy of Health Sciences in Ottawa. Kayoki is the first Indigenous person to be selected to the Canadian Agriculture Youth Council (CAYC). He was recently chosen to co-chair the CAYC's Climate Change Initiative. This past April, Kayoki was FirstU’s Youth Delegate to the UN Intergenerational Conference: All in for Climate Justice, Food Equity and Sustainability. Kayoki grows and markets teas from plants that he cultivates, or harvests from tended wild areas.Kayoki has an inherent understanding of the interconnectedness of the natural world. He cares deeply about fostering the interaction of people with nature and people with each other. He supports participants to accept differences and recognize shared values, ideas, goals, and experiences and leads them to better understand themselves and others while showing them the possibilities in food production and an understanding of the importance of caring for the earth. Kayoki and the Future Food Warriors are onsite for two days a week, working in the garden and engaging in structured learning about plant identification, local wild sources of food, sustainable soil amendment and plant care practices, climate effects on food production, and harvest and food sharing. Through skills development, the potential for future youth leaders will be developed, and participants will be introduced to the possibilities of future employment in agriculture while enjoying a shared harvest. Dashan Pimosen Kitiganing - Come Walk in the Garden For a congregation seeking a Green Sanctuary Accreditation, Ajashki fulfills the accreditation requirements for working with traditionally marginalized communities in our area. It is one of many actions being taken by the FirstU community to recognize our responsibility for environmental and climate justice. Ajashki helps us to respond in practical, functional and caring ways, greening the campus, learning to appreciate what is already there, promoting understanding across cultures and helping to prepare youth to face personal and community challenges. Ajashki invites everyone to come walk in the garden and delight in the bounty that nature provides. Help Ajashki Grow We invite you or your business or organization to become a Monthly Donor. You will be welcomed to our garden gatherings and receive regular updates. Donate Monthly to become a valued member of our Ajashki Garden: $5/month - Seedling $10/month - Sprout $20/month -Sapling $25/month - Tree Other/month - Compost Or make a One-Time Financial Donation - any amount is welcome. We also welcome In-Kind Donations: e.g. garden supplies, food donations (for our breakfast/lunch program), and office/art supplies. To donate: Send a cheque, made out to First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, and with "for Ajashki" on the memo line, and either drop it off in the Office, add it to the Sunday offering plate, OR mail it to FirstU at: 30 Cleary Avenue, Ottawa ON, K2A 4A1 Send an eTransfer to fm@firstunitarianottawa.ca using your online banking portal Donate through Canada Helps by selecting "Ajashki Food Security Project" from the drop-down menu. First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa is Ajashki's home, so donors will receive a charitable tax receipt. Your financial support is like the sun and water to plants - Thank you! For more information please read our Donation Letters: For Individuals For Businesses/Organizations Got Questions? Email Ajashki
- Spire | My Site
Parkway Spire Quarterly Magazine Click the image, below to read the latest issue. Get Notified of Our Next Edition Click Here for Past Editions of the Parkway Spire
- About Unitarian Universalism | My Site
Although each of us seeks an individual truth, Unitarian Universalists are bound together by the spiritual sources and eight principles of our religious faith Our UU Values As Unitarian Universalists, we share the Eight Principles of our faith and draw upon a religious pluralism that helps us deepen our understanding and expand our vision. In Unitarian Universalism, you can bring your whole self: your full identity, your questioning mind, your expansive heart. Unitarian Universalists do not have to let go of personal experiences, practices, or beliefs to be part of this community. We join together on a journey that honors all our individual backgrounds and experiences. Together, we create a force more powerful than one person or one belief system. Unitarian Universalist beliefs are diverse and inclusive. We have no shared creed. Although Unitarianism and Universalism both have origins as liberal Christian traditions, today we embrace diverse teachings from many different global religions and philosophies. Our shared covenant is expressed through the inseparable and deeply interdependent shared values: Justice: We work to be diverse multicultural Beloved Communities where all feel welcome and can thrive. Equity: We declare that every person is inherently worthy and has the right to flourish with dignity, love, and compassion. Transformation: We adapt to the changing world. We ask questions, change our minds, and are open to new ideas. Pluralism: We are all sacred beings, diverse in culture, experience, and theology. Interdependence: We honor the interdependent web of all existence and acknowledge our place in it. Generosity: We cultivate a spirit of gratitude and hope Our Chalice At the opening of Sunday worship and other spiritual meetings, many UU congregations light a flame inside a chalice. This flaming chalice has become a well-known symbol of our denomination. It unites our members in worship and symbolizes the spirit of our work. The Story of the Chalice An Austrian artist and refugee from the Nazis, Hans Deutsch, became involved with the Unitarian Service Committee (USC) during World War II. The USC assisted people escaping from the Nazis and oversaw a secret network of couriers and agents. This group asked Deutsch to create a symbol for them. He drew a pencil-and-ink chalice with a flame. The flaming chalice design was made into a seal for papers and a badge for agents moving refugees to freedom. It is now a symbol of Unitarian Universalism all around the world. About Unitarian Universalism The First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa follows the tenets of Unitarian Universalism—a liberal religion that combines two religious movements: Unitarianism and Universalism. Unitarianism, which dates back to the 16th century in Transylvania, began as a religious movement that opposed the idea of the Holy Trinity and believed in the oneness of God, free human will, and the loving benevolence of God. Universalism, which developed in North America in the 1800s, was a reaction against strict Calvinist doctrines of eternal punishment. Universalists believed that dignity and worth is innate to all people regardless of sex, colour, race, or class. Both Unitarians and Universalists believed in an inclusive theology, and they often acted together in many social justice movements in the 19th and 20th centuries. Unitarian Universalism: In 1961, the two movements merged and formed the Canadian Unitarian Council (CUC) in Canada and the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA) in the United States. For 40 years, these two organizations worked closely together to provide services and programs to congregations in both countries. However, by 2000, the CUC decided that it needed to focus on specific Canadian needs. In 2002, the CUC became the main association and service provider for Unitarians and Universalists in Canada. EightPrinciples The Eight Principles of Unitarian Universalism As we have no official Unitarian Universalist creed, each of us is free to search for truth on many paths. Some of us believe in a God while others do not. Some of us believe that each person houses a divine spirit while others do not believe in any sort of divinity. Our common denominator is a belief in openness, tolerance, and compassion for others and our environment. Although each of us seeks an individual truth, Unitarian Universalists are bound together by the eight principles and spiritual sources of our religious faith. We, the member congregations of the Canadian Unitarian Council, covenant to affirm and promote: the inherent worth and dignity of every person. justice, equity, and compassion in human relations. acceptance of one another and encouragement to spiritual growth in our congregations. a free and responsible search for truth and meaning. the right of conscience and the use of the democratic process within our congregation and in society at large. the goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all. respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part. individual and communal action that accountably dismantles racism and systemic barriers to full inclusion in ourselves and our institutions. As a free congregation, we enter into this covenant, promising to one another our mutual trust and support. Unitarian Universalist Resources The Canadian Unitarian Council The CUC is Canada's national organization for Unitarians, Unitarian Universalists, and Universalist Unitarians - all UUs - in Canada. They provide support for UUs and congregations across the country, fostering growth and outreach, providing resources for lifespan religious education, spiritual growth, and social responsibility, and hosting pan-Canadian workshops and events, including Unicamp for young adults, the CUC National Conference (held in Ottawa in 2023), monthly online gatherings like Connect And Deepen, and the Congregational Conversations Series of online discussion groups. Click here to learn more. UUA Worship Web The Unitarian Universalist Association is the United States' answer to the CUC. Their WorshipWeb is an online compendium of liturgical resources including blessings, poetry, and other words of worship, along with sermon transcripts, service and ceremony templates, and tool kits for worship leaders. It's an excellent resource for lay chaplains, worship associates, and congregants in service leadership roles, as well as anyone looking for inspiration in the context of our faith. Click here to access the WorshipWeb. Unitarian Universalist Hysterical Society The Unitarian-Universalist Hysterical Society was created in 2015 by Liz James, a UU in Saskatoon, to provide a space for sharing irreverent (and sometimes reverent) views on life and spiritual issues. It has grown to over 277K members - the largest UU organization in the world. As they say: 'You may have never even heard of Unitarian Universalism. We have no interest in converting you. If you share our goal of a world that's more just and loving, you're welcome here!' Click here for hUUmourous memes and other fun!
- Cleary Detour | My Site
Cleary Detour Map updated April, 2026 The temporary access to Cleary avenue via the Kristy's Restaurant detour is now closed. Instead, please use the new Cleary entrance. Whether by car, bus, bike, or on foot, please enter the campus by turning north at the traffic lights at Richmond and Cleary/Redwood Ave. TIP: If GPS gives you any difficulty, please google 888 Byron Avenue. When you arrive at 888 Byron Ave, please head North at that corner, onto Cleary Avenue and proceed to the end of the street. Note: The configuration of Richmond Road and Byron Avenue near Cleary Avenue will change multiple times due to LRT construction in the months ahead. We will update this page as new information becomes available. O-Train - Phase Two: Project Presentation for Unitarian House
- Caring Contacts | My Site
FirstU's Caring Team Caring Contacts The Caring Team has two different Caring Contacts for each month that serve as coordinators. They provide cards to be signed on Sunday mornings to be sent to members who are ill, or who are experiencing a life transition, be it joyous or sad. If you would like to request a card for yourself or others, please use the form to the right to request congregational care. Caring Visitors FirstU has a small team of trained Caring Visitors to support congregants who are experiencing challenges, transitions and times of questioning in their lives. Our Caring Visitors do visits in-person, by phone, and on Zoom. In these visits, they listen attentively and with empathy and, if requested, assist you in clarifying your feelings and thoughts. They can also make referrals to the Caring Network or our Minister. Caring Visitors do not provide counselling, driving, or appointment accompaniment. To request a Caring Visit, call the FirstU office at 613-725-1066 or send us an email. Join Our Caring Network We invite you to consider joining our Caring Network. We provide a vital way in which FirstU members generously give and receive compassionate care during those times of transition, sorrow and joy. Serving as a member of the Caring Network in this way is a wonderful way to meet and get to know fellow congregants. Congregational Care Request Please only submit this form with your personal contact information. Do not submit the form on behalf of someone else without their permission. Thank you! First name Last name Email* Phone Address (where you would like to receive notes of care or celebration from the congregation). Multi choice Please have a Caring Contact get in touch with me about the issue described below Please share this joy or concern with the congregation during Joys and Sorrows on Sunday Please contact me about a need for other assistance as described below Please describe your joy, or concern, or need:* Click Here to Send Your Request
- Journey Group Registration 2026-27 | My Site
Register for Journey Groups 2026-27 First name Last name Email Phone Preferred Days Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday Sunday Meeting Frequency* Weekly Monthly Twice a Month Meeting Type* In Person Online Would you like to be part of a Journey Group that meets over dinner?* Yes No Do You Have Any Questions? Submit
- Volunteer Availability Survey | My Site
How do you participate in congregational life? Participation in congregational life is two-sided. We'd like to know what events you attend, and we'd like to know how you show up to make things happen for yourself and others. All of these fields are optional - please feel free to share only what you are comfortable with. Note that if you share your email address or phone number, we would only use this information to follow up with you about opportunities if you have provided your consent to do so. First name Last name Email Phone What is your age? Under 18 18-25 25-39 40-65 66-79 80+ What year did you start attending FirstU? In what non-volunteering ways do you participate in congregational life at FirstU? Attending Sunday services Social Events (Church BBQ, Hospitality Hour, yUUth group, men's breakfast group, etc) Games (Trivia night, Euchre, Bridge) Religious Exploration and Lifespan Learning (journey groups, after-service discussions, OWL, Coming of Age, Online Meditation, Women's Inclusive Pagan Circle, etc) Personal Growth (Reading for Growth groups, Spirituality and Philosophy group, virtual discussion circle) Arts and Crafts (knitting group, attending choir concerts, Drumming and Singing Spires) Donating to, or attending, fundraisers (Fall Fair, GoGos Plant/Bake sales, Mitten Tree winter gear sale, fair trade goods table) FirstU External Events (Marching in Pride, the Climate March, attending protests and solidarity walks) Other In what ways, if any, do you currently volunteer at FirstU? Planning, presenting, or assisting at Sunday Services Assisting with after-service hospitality during Hospitality Hour Performing as part of a FirstU choir or the House Band Serving on the Board, or on a team, committee, or task force Volunteering at Events (taking a shift at Fall Fair, being a server during concert intermissions) Running or assisting with social or spiritual events (EG: book clubs, meditation group, games nights, writing group, Adult RE events, etc) Maintaining the campus (EG: Friends of the Meditation Garden, Annual play area clean-up) Helping with the Ajashki Project Other Why do you volunteer? Do you have any barriers to volunteering or participating in congregational life, more than you currently do? Lack of childcare Lack of transportation Paid work is too demanding of my time Paid work doesn't provide a consistent schedule School work is too demanding of my time Chronic illness, mobility issues, or other health stuff doesn't allow me to volunteer, or participate in events, on a consistent basis Family commitments (childcare, elder care) take most of my spare time My volunteer hours are split between FirstU and other volunteer commitments Activities and events I'd like to take part in are scheduled during my work/school hours I just found out about an activity/group I'd like to be part of, and don't know how to get involved Other If the right job can be found, I am willing to contribute: A few hours on short notice for a specific task A few more hours per week A few more hours per month A few more hours seasonally (3-4 months) A few more hours per year I am now at capacity for volunteer work What special skills, if any, are you willing to contribute at this time? Office Computer Skills (familiarity with google suite, MS office suite, etc) Phone Fearlessness Zoom Hosting Good with fine details Have recently passed a police record check for working with vulnerable populations Can comfortably lift and carry 20 lbs from one room to another Extrovert - Great at chatting up strangers and friends alike Lateral Thinking - I come up with unexpected solutions and draw connections that others might miss Meal Planning and Large Batch Cooking Event planning, including running said event(s) Self-starter - I can, and prefer to, volunteer from my home Social - I can, and prefer to, help on site, at the Church Other Is there anything else you'd like to share? Submit
- Annual Giving | My Site
FirstU's Annual Pledge Campaign Our annual Pledge Campaign is the most important source of revenue for our FirstU congregation, representing more than half of our annual income. This is vital because the congregation is entirely self-funding. There is no higher authority that sends us money. The money we raise during our annual Pledge Campaign is used to fund our mission and our events and activities, operate our church, pay our staff, and maintain our building. Actual payment of your contribution will be made in 2026, on a schedule that suits your finances. The theme for this year’s campaign is Hopes and Dreams. We have a new minister, Reverend Lara Cowtan. It is a time of new beginning. We have hopes and dreams. We dream of a world free of tyranny, oppression and injustice. Our Religious Exploration program brings hope, aiming to show children how to build a better world. We are living our vision by moving toward reconciliation with the Odayanhaway project and the promise of affordable housing on our campus. We are building to attract new and younger members, and it is working. We are growing! The FirstU community shows its generosity in many ways: with our time, with our compassion, with our ideas, and with our spirits. We also need to follow through with financial generosity. Because of our recent growth, last year’s pledge campaign exceeded its goals in both dollars and number of pledges. This is fortunate because we have been forced into running annual deficits as we await the start of rental income from our affordable housing project, Odayanhaway. Since our current growth rate is even more pronounced, we are raising our sights and setting our goals even higher to keep our deficits as low as possible: We are asking for a 10% jump in pledge totals. We will break the cycle of budget deficits and reverse the depletion of our investments, but we need your help. Proper funding allows our congregation to achieve our many goals: liberal religious exploration, social justice action, refugee support, and community building. There are many ways to support your church - monthly donations, legacy giving, one-time donations, and more. Have Questions? Call our Finance Manager Michelle Jackson at 613-725-1066 X 222 OR: Send Michelle an Email Our Annual Commitment Thank you for your past generosity. Our campaign for 2026 will run from late September to early December 2025.The pledge team is now accepting pledges. Donations are welcome, of course, at any time. Your pledges will nurture and support our community, and allow us to plan our programming year with any eye to what resources are available. Click here to see examples of what your generosity supports. How much to give depends very much on your personal situation. Click here for guidelines on giving. "I give so there is a place for truth and hope to grow." ~ C.T. (FirstU member since 2001) Why We Pledge Words from Our Members on Supporting Our Church You may be wondering why people give financially and how they determine an amount that is right for them. Listen to some of our members share their feelings and experiences about the Congregation and their annual giving experience. Make Your Pledge Online Download the Printable Pledge Form as a PDF Making Your Commitment to Give in 2026 There are various ways to participate in the Annual Pledge Campaign, as outlined in the Pledge Campaign Brochure and our Guidelines for Giving. Other Ways to Support Our Mission One-Time Donations Perhaps you'd like to make a donation in memory of a loved one, or to support a particular cause we are championing. Thank you. Visit our Donations page, call the office at 613-725-1066 X 222, or email our Finance Manager, for details. Tax receipts are issued for amounts over $25. Funding Programs Annual giving is supplemented by other ways of supporting the church, including Planned Giving, also known as Legacy Giving, and the Endowment Fund. If you would like to know more about Legacy Giving and bequests read about Legacy Giving here, or call the church office: 613-725-1066 Generosity Supports What Your Generosity Supports With Covid-19 well behind us, we are returning to a normal that is better than ever. Our on-line presence is now permanent. Those hampered by distance, schedule, or lack of mobility can now access FirstU from home. Choir rehearsals and performance are back, unmasked, and coffee hour has returned. Your support going forward will help fund programs like Odayanhaway, our affordable housing and reconciliation project, and the Ajashki Project as well as our ongoing Refugee Support. We are rebuilding our Religious Exploration and Adult Learning and Growth programs. We will continue to meet the spiritual needs of existing members and newcomers by offering opportunities for non-dogmatic spiritual development to our thriving, growing community. Make Your Pledge Online Download the Printable Pledge Form as a PDF Guidelines On Giving Who Should Give? We enthusiastically invite everyone who is part of the FirstU community – whether or not you are a member – to pledge your financial support. Contributions from Pledgers enable the financial sustainability of FirstU and our mission. If you are part of the FirstU community, but not yet a member, you can contact the Welcome & Membership Team to find out more about the benefits of the stronger connection that membership brings. When and How Do I Give? Giving Regularly For your own budgeting, you may prefer regular monthly donations. We encourage this, as it helps with FirstU’s budget too! There are several ways to donate, including Pre-Authorized Chequing (PAC), Credit Card, Etransfers and postdated cheques. You can also donate regularly by Sunday Service plate offerings, either in person or electronically. See the Pledge Form for details and contact Michelle Jackson at fm@firstunitarianottawa.ca to set up a payment plan that suits your needs. Giving a One-Time Gift You may prefer giving by an annual one-time cheque. We require donations for the 2026 Pledge Campaign to be post-dated for 2026. Note that all donations are receipted in the year in which they are received though, of course, we encourage donations at any time. You can also donate publicly-traded shares. Michelle Jackson has special forms to accomplish this in a tax-efficient manner. Click Here to Email Michelle How Much Should I Give? How much to give depends on your personal situation. It is often much easier for someone who makes $100,000 a year to give a certain percentage of their income than for someone who makes $20,000 a year to donate the same percentage. We encourage you to donate what you can without harming yourself or your family. If you would like some guidance, please see the Sample Pledge and Contribution Chart, below. We encourage everyone to make a pledge that fits with their personal circumstances and commitment to the congregation. Consider your UU values and place yourself along this continuum: Supporter: The congregation is a significant part of my spiritual and intellectual life, It supports my spiritual growth. Sustainer: The congregation is my central community; I am committed to sustaining the programs and ministries of my congregation. Visionary: My commitment is a clear demonstration of the unique importance to me of this congregation and of my spiritual principles. I am committed to its present and future growth Consider Increasing Your Monthly Gift If you are already donating monthly by PAC or credit card, we thank you for your commitment. This is an ideal time to consider increasing your monthly donation in 2025 to reflect the increase in cost of living. Make Your Pledge Online Download the Printable Pledge Form as a PDF Pledge Online Thank you for pledging to support your congregation in 2027! This year’s campaign - held from September to November, 2026 - will secure financial support for FirstU throughout 2027, for all our resources and programs. How much to give depends very much on your personal situation. You can download the Pledge Form here OR fill out and submit the online Pledge 2027 form below. Pledge Campaign 2027 First name* Last name* Total Pledge Amount for 2027* NOTE: If you don't remember what you pledged last year, you can email Michelle at fm@firstunitarianottawa.ca to find out. How do you wish to donate?* Pre-Authorized Chequing* (most popular) One-Time / Pre-Set Monthly Credit Card Payment* Post-Dated Cheques (date for 2027) Sunday Offerings in Donation Envelopes (if attending in person) Individual Cheque Dated 2027 (payable to First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa) Etransfer to fm@firstunitarianottawa.ca (“For 2026 Pledge” - do NOT send before 2026) Donation of Publicly Traded Securities (Contact Michelle Jackson for Details) Reminder: Please do NOT "pre-pay" by sending eTransfers before January 1, 2026 or sending cheques dated for before January 1, 2026. Pledge donations must arrive during the year they are pledged for, or they create accounting problems. Please Update My Contact Information* Yes (see below) No (my contact information is the same as last year) Multi-line address Country/Region Address City Zip / Postal code Phone Email If you are making a pledge on behalf of you and another person (e.g. a partner or spouse), please include their contact information below First and Last Name Email Phone Their mailing address is the same as mine Multi-line address Country/Region Address City Zip / Postal code Please Check All That Apply I/we have increased my Pledge from last year I/we need to complete or update our Photo Permission Form I / we give permission to be included in the Member Directory I / we would like to receive a Membership Application I / we would like to be contacted for FirstU volunteer needs I / we would like to start receiving the weekly eUU by email I / we would like to start receiving the quarterly Parkway SPIRE publication I / we would like to be contacted about Legacy Giving * Note that you can create, change, or cancel your PAC or Credit Card payment frequency and details at any time by contacting Finance Manager Michelle Jackson. If you currently donate by automatic payments and choose to switch methods, please notify Michelle to cancel automatic payments. Submit
- Thank You Page | My Site
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- Volunteer With Us | My Site
Share Your Time - Volunteer at FirstU It takes everyone to keep a church going! If you're a parent with an hour or two to spare while your kids are at after-school activities, a recent retiree excited to have time to share, a new friend with a driver's license, a high school student with volunteer hours to fill, or someone who's handy with a hammer, a spreadsheet, a trowel, or a talking point, we want your input! If you want to get more involved in the day-to-day running of your church, but you're not sure if you have the necessary skills, don't worry, as long as you've got curiosity and commitment, you can learn everything you need on the job. Below, you'll find events, campaigns, and committees who need YOUR time, skills and solutions! Click Here to Submit a Request for Volunteers Click Here to Fill Out Our FirstU Participation Survey Volunteer Opportunities Check out our volunteer listings, below. If something catches your eye, use the available contact information OR email volunteers@firstunitarianottawa.ca if you're interested in taking part, or have questions about a specific posting! Remember to include the full title of the listing, along with your contact information, in your email. If you’re not able to make direct contact, the Volunteer Coordinator will facilitate contact. Please allow us a few days. NOTE: In the email addresses below, in order to keep personal emails from being compromised, they are not shown as working address. Instead, we've used the word "[at] where the "@" sign should be. When emailing a given contact person, just use "@" instead of "[at]" when adding the email to your "to" field. Sunday Mornings Religious Exploration Volunteers Wanted Our Religious Exploration for Children and Youth (RE) programs are growing, and we want you to grow with us! We're looking for volunteers to support our staff in our Chalice and Wonder rooms. The time commitment would be one Sunday morning every 4 to 6 weeks. Please contact dre@firstunitarianottawa.ca if you'd like to learn more about how you can support our UU Kids, and our RE Staff, by volunteering with us. Sunday Morning AV Volunteers Do you have AV skills (or would like to learn)? We're currently looking for volunteers to assist Julia with AV on Sunday mornings. Paid opportunities may also be available. If you're interested, please contact Julia at av@firstunitarianottawa.ca or talk to her after Sunday service. Lift Operators Needed We are seeking two new volunteers to act as Designated Lift Operators for Sunday services to assist our fellow congregants with mobility issues in using the elevator for Sunday Services, as well as on and on special occasions such as concerts, Fall Fair, Christmas services, and so on. Sunday Service schedules are arranged a monthly basis, so no commitment to an on-going specific Sunday is required. Duties include: Arriving at the Service for 10 AM and staying until 11:45 Assisting members requiring the elevator with entering, operating, and assisting with exiting the elevator. There are, on average, five users of the lift service on Sunday mornings. Training for operating of the elevator is provided. Committing on a month by month basis to being on the schedule. Currently the four team members are scheduling one Sunday service per month. For further info, please contact Stan at stanleypope74[at]yahoo.ca. Ushers and Greeters Wanted Do you like running into old friends, and making new ones? We're looking for a few more people to act as Sunday morning greeters and ushers. You would need to be available one Sunday every several weeks, depending on numbers. The only skill needed is a welcoming smile. Childcare is available before the service if you need it. Email Barb at ryanbarb99[at]gmail.com if you'd like to be involved. Help with Hospitality Hour If you are looking for a way to meet and work in a friendly, small group environment, please consider joining our team. We are a dedicated group of volunteers who prepare hot/cold beverages and snacks before the service and do the clean-up, after the gathering in Fellowship Hall. People traditionally sign-up on a rotation basis to assist, either before or after the service, every 4-5 weeks. Childcare is available before the service if you need it while assisting with set-up. Email Tarrel at tarrelarmstrong[at]gmail.com if you'd like to be involved. Social Justice Interested in Working with Refugees? The Refugee Support Action Group needs you! We'll be submitting an application to sponsor a refugee family soon and they may arrive very quickly - within 6 to 10 weeks or even sooner. We're assembling a team of people to help with settlement activities so we'll be ready when they arrive. Tasks include everything from helping find housing, driving to appointments, helping learn English to the coordination of medical appointments. Please contact refugees@firstunitarianottawa.ca or talk to Brent or Eva. Affordable Housing Interested becoming involved in our Aspire affordable housing project? Join our group to develop plans for this exciting project. Contact Lisa S at lisasharp[at]rogers.com if you are interested. Global Justice Volunteers Wanted Are you passionate about human rights? We need some people to help organize (scheduling and promotion) of special events such as film nights and guest speakers. Training and coaching is available. Contact sjan@firstunitarianottawa.ca with any questions. Ajashki Volunteers Are you looking to take action in support of advancing Reconciliation? The recently re-centred Ajashki program is looking for volunteers. Tasks will include but are not limited to taking turns watering the gardens and doing grow tower maintenance this summer. Please email ajashki@firstunitarianottawa.ca or see Ray (Rachelle) after service to express your interest. Groceries Shopper Needed Join our team and purchase groceries once a month for the food cupboard and deliver them to the congregation. Submit your receipts for reimbursement. For more info contact Lisa S at lisasharp[at]rogers.com. Assistance with the Environmental Action Group articles in the Spire The Environmental Action Group generally contributes two 450-word articles on environmental issues to each edition of the quarterly Spire (March, June, September, December). Our communications person is looking for a volunteer who would be responsible for finding two appropriate contributors for each edition. The volunteer could be one of the contributors if they wished. Some editing skills may be required. The hours are flexible but articles must be turned in for review by the EAG Organizing Committee by the 13th of the month preceding publication (ie the 13th of Feb, May, August, November). Contact Donna at E AWG@firstunitarianottawa.ca if you'd like to get involved. Committees and Teams Help Us Build a Rich and Dynamic Adult Learning and Growth Team Be a part of our renewed Adult Learning and Growth Team. We act as a catalyst to initiate events/ programs and also to coordinate our various activities, including preparing a seasonal calendar of events and programs. Bring your interest, your enthusiasm and your skills and helps us build a rich adult learning program. Roles range from bringing ideas, reviewing learning proposals, facilitating courses or workshops to preparing the seasonal calendar and requires a few hours, monthly. Please contact Eva at evaberringer[at]hotmail.com. Join the FirstU Communications Team Are you interested in helping to promote FirstU to the wider community? We need people to help market one-time events within FirstU and to the wider Ottawa community. We are also looking to increase our core Team size, which meets about once monthly, to help develop guidelines and policies on communicating events and coordinating with staff to successfully promote our community. Currently, we meet on an as-needed basis, but typically from 7:00pm - 8:30PM. Contact communications@firstunitarianottawa.ca if you'd like to join us! Administration and Coordination Backup for Office Assistant Position There is a need for three or four volunteers who would be able occasionally to cover the office reception desk when an Office Assistant is absent. The tasks would include: Availability from 10:00am to 3:00pm Answering the phone and handling phone messages Directing or assisting people who come to the office Printing documents Checking the outside mailbox and distributing the mail received Helping the Operations Manager and Finance Manager with administrative tasks such as shredding papers The skills needed are: Computer competence with Windows, Outlook, File Explorer, and web searches A pleasant and confident demeanour on the phone and interacting with others Training, plus as much time as you need to familiarize yourself with the position, will be provided by a current Office Assistant Staff person. If interested, contact oas@firstunitarianottawa.ca . Event Opportunities Time & Talent Auction Time & Talent 2025 was such a success, we’re bringing it back! Look for a call for items in the coming weeks, and expect a late-April 2026 date for the week of bidding. Want to volunteer? Coordinator David Chernushenko is looking to share the load. Could you assist this year with the thought of taking over next year, or just helping this year? Contact david[at]davidc.ca to learn more. Memorial Receptions Need Volunteers Memorial Receptions for First Unitarian members are held when requested. Most are on Saturday, Sunday or Friday. Our volunteers can choose to help with the set-up in Fellowship Hall before the service, or serve tea/coffee, or help with clean-up afterwards. Others may prefer to donate foods specifically requested such as squares, fruit or sandwiches. Family and friends appreciate the reception and the volunteers meet new people while working as a team with the goals of caring and giving. Join us! Commitment is 1 to 2.5 hours. Lead time is 10 days to 2-3 weeks in advance. Days & times vary with chosen date & time of a memorial service. Contact evelyn.algar[at]rogers.com to get involved. Ongoing Opportunities Ridesharing at FirstU Occasionally a congregant will need a ride to and from the church for a Sunday morning service or another event. We would like to build a roster of volunteer drivers spread out across the city, for each compass direction from the church: North, South, East and West. If you are interested in offering the occasional ride to a fellow congregant, please contact Andrew Drake, Cell: 613-608-7157, Email: andrewdrake235[atgmail.com. Gardening Assistance The Friends of the Meditation Garden always needs gardeners. We work cooperatively to maintain the north and south gardens; a weekly list of tasks is shared along with suggested work dates for group work. Independent work occurs at any time. Time for breaks (group chat) is allocated some weeks; we are a friendly helpful group. Most tools, gloves etc., are provided. You can work independently or with group. We work about two hours per week in the summer when available . The time is flexible but the team usually meets on Wednesday and/or Friday mornings weather permitting. Contact MargaretELinton[at]gmail.com for more info. Van Drivers for Occasional Unitarian House Outings For about the last two years a team growing out of the FirstU Men’s Breakfast Group has been providing support to Unitarian House by driving their van to take residents on outings. These are either on Tuesday or Thursday mornings from 0900 to 1130 or afternoons from 1300 to 1430. Special event trips are also occasionally scheduled. Those helping say they have found these to be pleasant and easy outings with interesting people. It would be helpful to add a few more people to assist with the driving schedule so that each volunteer would have only one or two assignments per month. Some training will be provided, but a special license is not necessary. If you are interested, please contact Larry Jones, Cell: 613-299-2770 or email: joneslf[at]magma.ca. Join the FirstU House Band We are looking for enthusiastic singers, musicians of all kinds and of all ages to join our FirstU House Band, whose performance focus is contemporary music. There will be opportunities to perform at Sunday services, Open Mic events, and other special events. Interested? Contact houseband@firstunitarianottawa.ca
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Memorial Services for Our Members and Past Members CAPPUCCINO, Fred (Reverend) Reverend Fred Cappuccino, Minister Emeritus of Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Ottawa, passed away on August 6, 2026, at the age of one hundred. WILMOTT, Samuel John Samuel John Wilmott passed on July 30, 2026, at the age of 77. CUYLITS, Ed Ed Cuylits passed away on Wednesday, April 28. His memorial service will be Friday, June 12 at 10:30am. PASKOVICH, Don Don Paskovich passed away Monday April 29th at the age of 88. Head gardener, scientist, beloved Westboro resident, community builder, globe trotter, nature lover. He was proud of being a member of First Unitarian Ottawa. He will be remembered for his wonderful smile which would light up a room and his glass half full outlook on life. BUSHE, Alice Alice Bushe passed away on April 5, 2026. MACKENZIE, Nonna Nonna MacKenzie died on March 24, 2026, surrounded by family and friends. She had sought relief through MaID for quite some time, and was finally able to have her wish. Nonna enjoyed a long connection with First Unitarian Ottawa and our community, including having run a booth at Fall Fair over a number of years. It was Nonna's request that there be neither a memorial service held, nor an obituary notice published. SAMUEL, Matilda Anela (née Volny) Matilda Anela Samuel died 24 March 2026 at 94 (b. 12 September 1931); wife of the late George Henry Samuel 2019; mother of Hilary Samuel, Delwen Samuel and Douglas Samuel, mother-in-law to Rhéal Delaquis (husband of Hilary) and Mark Nesbitt (husband of Delwen); beloved grandmother of Sylvia Nesbitt and Melissa Nesbitt. MASON-WARD, Paul David Paul David Mason-Ward died on March 21, 2026, (b. 11 August 1935); husband of Lesley, father of daughters Sarah (John DeKay), Martha (Roberto Fatoric), and Tarra (Bruce McGuire), and grandfather of Mason, Carling, Milan, Josh, Dawson, and Rebecca. BACON, Michael John (Max) Max Bacon died on January 13, 2026 (b. 4 April 1928). He was pre-deceased by his first wife, Marjory Claire Bacon, and survived by their children Christopher Bacon, Diana Bacon Pearson (John Pearson), Nicholas Bacon; and Michael's wife, Jill McFarlane. BARTLETT, Donald Donald Bartlett died on January first, 2026. He is the husband of Diane Boucher. CASSIDY, Mike Mike Cassidy, along-time member of First Unitarian passed away in November of 2025. According to the family’s wishes, they are now making this news public. A service for Mike will be held here at 30 Cleary on Saturday, February 28 at 11:00am, followed by a reception. A memorial notice can be read here. EDWARDS, Ken With regret, the family announces that Ken passed away peacefully at the Queensway-Carleton Hospital in the early morning hours of Friday, January 9, 2026. He was 91 years of age. Beloved father of Jennifer Edwards. Dear brother of Ralph Edwards (Mary Ellen) and Ruth Briggs (Stan). Also survived by nieces and nephews. His obituary can be read here. SAMUEL, Matilda Matilda Samuel passed away on January 1, 2026. BARTLETT, Don Don Bartlett passed away on January 1, 2026. LISHMAN, Judith "Judy" Diane Judy died on November 23, 2025 (b. 5 February 1943). Wife of Donald, mother of Paul (Wendy) and Anne (Michael), and grandmother of five. DAWES, Marianne While grateful for her time with us, we are sad to announce the passing of our mother/grandmother/great grandmother on Wednesday, October 8, 2025 at the age of 99. Lovingly remembered by her four children: Lesley, Jan, Barbara, Philip and Jennifer, grandchildren Joseph, Dawsyn, Yvanna, Warren, Laughlin, Bronwynne, Declan, Gareth, and great grandchildren Lucy and William. SUSAN (Tudy) McLaine Tudy passed away peacefully at the New Edinburgh Square Retirement Home in Ottawa, on Saturday, June 21, 2025, at the age of 91. With her persistent call to action: “Think globally, act locally”, Tudy was a proud Unitarian, a fierce environmentalist before it was fashionable, an arts enthusiast, and an unforgettable hostess—just ask anyone who’s tasted her grasshopper pie. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Canadian Friends of International House. Her Celebration of Life was held on Saturday, July 19 at 2:00pm in Worship Hall. Her full obituary is HERE. DAVIS, Charles William (Bill) December 19, 1935 - March 21, 2025 The passing of Charles William Davis (Ottawa, Ontario) leaves a void in the hearts of many, as we bid farewell to a loving soul who departed on March 21, 2025 at the age of 89. He is survived by: his wife Agnes; his children, Paul and Carla (Greg); and his grandchildren, Avalon (Kai) and Alaric (Launi). Visitation were held on Monday, March 31st 2025 from 10:00 AM to 11:00 AM at the Central Chapel of Hulse, Playfair & McGarry (315 McLeod St, Ottawa, ON K2P1A2). His full obituary is HERE. BOWEN, Elizabeth Rose Elizabeth passed away peacefully with a dear friend by her side at Shenkman Palliative Care Unit at Saint-Vincent on September 13th, 2024. She loved to travel, quite often with Friendship Force, and enjoyed attending the theatre, galleries and museums with her many valued friends. You can read her full obituary HERE. MCKINNELL, Robert Taylor Robert passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 9, 2024 at the Glebe Centre, in his adopted hometown of Ottawa. A true global citizen: he lived, loved, laughed and worked in many different countries. This custodian of Bodkin Island, New Brunswick was adored by his four sons and seven grandchildren, and could always find common ground with whomever he met. You can read his full obituary HERE. YEAMAN, Carole Ann Carole Ann Yeaman, at 82 years, died peacefully on February 5, 2024, at the Almonte General Hospital. She had lived independently until her cancer diagnosis in late October. She faced her final months cheerfully and with courage, amused by and amusing the family and friends around her. She was an avid gardener, a joyful swimmer, a talented fibre artist, with a passion for all the arts, and above all else Carole was a voracious reader: Her personal library was, she said, "exceeded only by the Library of Alexandria." You can read her full obituary HERE. HUNTER, Beryl Maxine Beryl died peacefully on February 4, 2024, at the age of 86. She will be missed by her many friends in Toronto, Ottawa, and especially in Unitarian House where she was a longtime resident. You can read her full obituary HERE. BEARE-ROGERS, Joyce Dr Joyce L. Beare-Rogers CM, Ph.D., FRSC passed away on December 1, 2023 In her 96th year, after a long and remarkable life. She was driven by a life-long love of learning and intellectual curiosity, and was the first woman and first Canadian to be president of the American Oil Chemists Society. She loved to cook and entertain, and she loved to travel. You can read her full obituary HERE. DARRAGH, Barbara Barbara Darragh was born on December 31, 1928, and was born and raised on McLeod Street, in Ottawa. She passed away on November 22, 2023, at Amica Westboro Park, after a lifetime of skating, swimming, hiking, skiing, and dancing. She is dearly missed by her sons, Robert and Jacques (Toni) Lee; grandsons Jonah and Thomas Lee; niece Carol Mordy; nephews John and Peter Mordy, and Steven Hannington; countless cousins from the Hanington family (both spellings are correct); stepchildren Ian (Elizabeth), Alex (Linda), and Jane Darragh; seven step-grandchildren; and eight step-great-grandchildren. ELEAZAR, Phyllis Phyllis Elaine Eleazar, born on 19 September 1947 in Corentyne, Guyana, passed away on 11 August 2023, in Ottawa, Canada. Phyllis was the daughter of the late Randolph Joseph Sidney Eleazar and the late Mildred Park. She leaves behind, Aunt Barbara Rockcliffe, Aunt Lorna Lampkin, and Kathleen Eleazar; sisters Doreen David and Dawn Eleazar-Fernandes, brothers Gordon and Christopher Eleazar, and Randy Reece, nephews and nieces Tristan, Shaina, Jayden and Ilyas Eleazar, Michelle and Monique David, Marcia Park, Julita Park-Pentision, and cousins, Eloise Park, Avril Robertson, Colin Clark, Annabelle (Pinkie) Cunningham-Clarke, Clarence, Rowan, Trevor, Jeffrey-Paul Abbensetts and Simone Gyechie, Michelle and Jennifer Rockcliffe, Adrian Myrill and many others. Read the entire obituary here. ROBINSON, Douglas (Doug) Douglas Alexander Robinson, 60, of Kingston, Ontario, passed away peacefully surrounded by his loved ones on July 28th 2023. Douglas was born on August 20th 1962 to Jane (nee Peebles) and Donald Robinson, in Kingston, Ontario. He was the beloved father to his four children Monique (Michael), Victor, Jean-Luc, and Armand (Bernadette, friend and mother of his children). Brother of Peter (Gillian) and Keith (Pia) and his niece and nephews Ada, Ben, Carter, and Spencer. Predeceased by his parents Jane and Donald Robinson. Douglas was an avid cyclist, musician extraordinaire, cat whisperer, and lover of puns. He graduated from Queens University with an engineering degree in 1987 and could be found tinkering on his next project. Douglas enjoyed travelling and was always interested in learning new things. His kind spirit, creative mind, and loving heart will be greatly missed by all. Read the obituary here. WATSON, Sherri Marie April 3, 1944 - March 27, 2023 Loving wife of the late Robert W Fassold. Survived by her sister Gayle, sister-in-law Ruth Townsend, step-daughter Kim Knudsen and family. Sherri had an eclectic career; she graduated from Toronto General Hospital in nursing, received her BSC from Western University, studied Earth Science at York University and Business Administration at Harvard. She was a diva soprano, hiker, environmentalist, animal lover, passionate lifelong learner, advocate for justice, committed volunteer and an active member of First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa. Funeral will be held on April 3, 2023, at 3 p.m. at the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, 30 Cleary Ave, Ottawa. For those wishing, donations to the Canadian Parks and Wilderness Society (CPAWS), World Animal Protection Canada or a charity of your choice. Read the full obituary here. MCCUAIG, Helen Elizabeth Helen Elizabeth McCuaig celebrated her 100th birthday on December 21, 2022 with friends, fun and cake at the Unitarian House, where she resided for the last ten years of her life. She died peacefully on April 30 after a brief hospitalization, with her cousin Karen Berrigan at her side. Helen was the daughter of Linda (Munro) and Wesley McCuaig and the eldest sister of Lois Walker (Bruce) and the late Norma Owen (David). She is survived by Lois, and several nieces, nephews and cousins including Frances Owen Cord, Wesley Johnston, Karen Berrigan and Judy Johnston. You may read the full obituary here. KOPKE, Brian (Reverend) Rev. Brian Kopke, who served the FirstU community from 1985 to 2007, died on Saturday, December 31st, 2022, following a long illness. His was a passionate voice for social justice, and if you’ve seen some of his intricate pencil sketches, you have an idea as to how detailed his vision and thinking could be. You can find his obituary here. CLARKE, Margot Margot Clarke died peacefully at age 93 on October 18, 2022. She was committed to her community, volunteering with Ottawa West Community Support, River Parkway Children's Centre, Dying with Dignity Canada and the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa. In her last weeks she was still checking-in on church members as part of her responsibilities with the congregation’s Caring Committee. Margot loved the arts and a week rarely went by that she wasn’t at a concert, theatre production, art exhibition, book launch or movie. With the restrictions of COVID-19, she embraced Zoom and continued to enjoy music, lectures and her book club. Until her 90th year, her busy and full life included outings with friends, choir, yoga classes, hiking with the Active Living Club, and playing bridge with the same bridge club going on 60 years. AHMED, Jean Jean Ahmed passed away in hospital on September 10, at the age of 92. She had been enjoying her new residence in Toronto, close to family who were able to visit more frequently than when she was in Ottawa. Her children, Neil and Susan both made sure to keep her Fellowship family updated, first when she moved to Toronto, and finally when she passed last week. Jean was a stalwart member of both FirstU and UUFO. MCDIARMID, Don Don McDiarmid passed away on Monday May 2, 2022 at the Perth Hospital. We extend our heartfelt condolences to Louise, and children Heather and Andrew. Don, who held various leadership positions at FirstU before moving to UUFO, was a gentle and thoughtful person whose search for the deeper meaning of life never ceased. (Notice courtesy of UUFO's Caring Circle). STERN, Bette Jane Bette departed on her final trip 5 months after attaining her goal of living to the age of 100. Predeceased by her husband Seymour and son Robert, she leaves behind her eldest son Griffith (Thum) and daughter Julie. She will be fondly remembered and dearly missed. PATTEN, Richard With deep sadness, the family of Richard Andrew Patten announce his death at the Ottawa General Hospital on December 30, 2021. Richard always strove to address issues that would enhance people’s quality of life. He loved to socialize with friends and colleagues and he joined many small groups, sharing the joy of camaraderie while fleshing out solutions to important issues. Richard, and his wife Penny, have been members of our congregation for 35 years. REEVES, Sharon We are sad to announce the passing of Sharon Reeves, wife of Tony Turner, on December 21, 2021. Sharon and Tony were active members of our congregation for many years, until their move to BC a few years ago. A memorial service for Sharon will be planned and details communicated in the New Year. LANKTREE, Charles One of our former members Charles Lanktree sadly passed away on November 28th, 2021, following a two year struggle with melanoma. GOLDEN, Laura Laura Golden died on November 11, 2021, in Mexico, where she had recently relocated. ELLIOTT, Ted Ted Elliott, husband of Katharine (Kathie) Elliott, passed away on September 28, 2021, after a long (4 years) struggle with Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s. Ted was a humble, kind, gentle man full of energy and always willing to help anyone. JELLY, Doris Helena Doris Helena Jelly, scientist and author, passed away peacefully on September 11, 2021. She will be ever missed by her daughter Janet Hodges and by all the Lucas family. Also survived by several nieces and nephews. Graveside service to be held at a later date. Donations to the Unitarian Church gratefully accepted. CRIGHTON, Harry Harry passed away peacefully in Ottawa on July 17th, at the age of 88. He is survived by his loving wife of 62 years, Joan Ruth, his two sons, Scott and Eric, daughters-in-law, Liz and Caroline, his six wonderful grandchildren, and many close and caring friends in Ontario, PEI and Australia. Born in Meaford, Ontario in 1933, he grew up mostly in Toronto where he dedicated himself to escaping the big city and spending time in the forests of Northern Ontario. Harry was a loving and dedicated husband, father, grandfather and friend to many, who was loved and respected in return by everyone who was touched by his life. He will be greatly missed. A celebration of his life is planned in the coming weeks. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Harry's memory to Médecins Sans Frontières (MSF) Canada or Amnesty International. HENRY, Hedvig Born Hedvig Zuzek in Slovenia, in 1925. She came to Canada in 1957 with her two sons and then husband, Sigmund Horvath. She moved from Toronto to Ottawa and bought her first condo in 1972. In 1992, she married William Henry who died this past January. She leaves behind Steve Horvath and Diane St-Pierre (wife), John Horvath and Madeleine Aubrey (wife), Matthew Horvath (grandson) and Lucy (wife), Kathryn Aubrey-Horvath (granddaughter) and Brian Cox (husband), Matthieu Aubrey-Horvath (grandson), William Horvath, Claire Horvath, Wyatt Cox and Louisa Cox (great-grandchildren). Other family members include a nephew Leslie Hull (wife, Julie) and a niece Elizabeth Hull (husband Craig) in Toronto. In Slovenia, she is survived by four sisters: Marija, Elizabeta (husband Ivan), Anica (husband Pista) and Nada (husband Frank). Due to the COVID-19 guidelines for gatherings the visitation and funeral will be private for the immediate family. In memory of Hedvig Henry, please consider a donation to The Vanier Institute of the Family or to Child Haven International or the World Wild Life Fund. Her obituary is HERE. KOWALSKI, Ryszard Ian Ryszard Kowalski died peacefully at the Elisabeth Bruyere Centre, on February 15, 2020. He leaves behind his cherished wife of 26 years, Sheila, his beloved daughter Brigitte (Alex), his dear mother Zofia, brother Roman (Fabienne), nephew Martin, and cousin Wojtek, as well as his loving stepdaughters Allison (Jeff) and Emily (Jose), his sister-in-law Megan (Richard), his brother-in-law Michael (Mitsuko), his nephew Akira (Ariel) and his brother-in-law Ernie (Gail and family). His memory will be forever cherished by his grandchildren, Noam, Hendrix, Carmen, Lucia, Elliott and Gwen, and his great-nephew Niko. Ryszard lived his life to the fullest, with passion and a generous spirit that many felt the benefit of. He will be forever remembered by all of his friends. He touched the lives of many. For those wishing to make a donation in Ryszard's memory, we suggest the following: The Elisabeth Bruyere Centre, Roger's House, or the Canadian Cancer Society. Friends may visit at the Kelly Funeral Home, Walkley Chapel, on Saturday, February 22, from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. A celebration of his life will follow in the Spring. The family wishes to thank the caring staff at the Elisabeth Bruyere Centre, and 6th Floor staff of the General Campus of the Ottawa Hospital. STEVENSON, Robert James (Bob) Bob Stevenson died suddenly while visiting his favourite vacation destination on Friday, February 7, 2020 at the age of 79. Robert is survived by his loving wife Linda. Loving father of Chris Stevenson (Maureen Sheppard); Beth Stevenson (Robert Turner); Fiona Stevenson and Vicki Stevenson (Anders Carson). Proud grandfather to Kari, Emilia, Dan, Jenna, Deckard and Hayden. Dear brother of John (Donna), Davey (Brigid) and Jim (Wendy). Friends and family are welcome to attend a visitation at the Garden Chapel of Tubman Funeral Homes, 3440 Richmond Road, Nepean (between Bayshore and Baseline Rd.) on Friday, February 14, 2020 from 6 to 8 p.m. A Celebration of his life will be held in the Chapel on Saturday, February 15, 2020 at 10:30 a.m. Memorial donations to the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa would be appreciated. Margaret Helga Cox Maggie Cox joined with the molecules of everything in loving comfort at Bruyère Hospital embraced by her children: Tory, Andrina & Sara. Loving grandmother to: Eva Bourassa, & Alden Cox; eldest sibling: Erling Horn. Maggie's everloving cousins Gloria & Tina, Nephews: Patrick, Rolphe, Jacques, and Chris Scanell; Niece: Laura. Her dearly departed parents: Erling & Margaret, brothers Arthur & John were early pioneers of living artfully, in Oakland CA. Maggie moved to Ottawa with husband Dr. Bruce Cox, Prof. of Anthropology at Carleton University Molecularity: Dec.11/2001) after living with the Hopi in Arizona to write his dissertation. Maggie taught Pottery at Abbotsford, & Ottawa Tech. Long time members of First Unitarian, & founding members of Unitarian Universalist Fellowship. Maggie will always be known for her lively conversation, wonderful hospitable nature, a gourmet, who made the dishes and their contents, and where all feel welcome. Donations to Child Haven Int., Bruyère Hospice. A celebration of life will be held: 1:00 PM to 3:00 PM on Dec. 28, 2019 at First Unitarian Congregation, 30 Cleary Ave. Ottawa K2A 4A1 PREVOST, Marilyn Elaine (nee Greer) July 6, 1937 - December 2, 2019 Marilyn Prevost died peacefully on her terms at home in Ottawa, the same city where she was born. She grew up in North Gower, now part of the City of Ottawa, with early memories that included World War II rationing. Survived by her loving husband Maurice ("Maury") Prevost, who she married in 1975, daughter Elizabeth Broadfoot (Cameron MacLennan), son Andrew Prevost, sister Sheila Armstrong (Ken), sisters-in-law Annie Prevost (Bob Lemon), Linda Greer, and June Hampton (Murray), brother-in law George Prevost, nieces Kim Greer, Heather Phillips (Terry), Fiona Slattery (Tom), and Holly Hunt, nephews Mike Greer (Irene), John Armstrong (Kelly), and Craig Hampton, and numerous first cousins. Predeceased by her parents Howard Greer and Lou Greer (nee Beaman), her brother Carman Greer, and several first cousins. RENGER, Elisabeth Leonore (Van Barneveld) After an unexpected and very rapid decline in health while travelling, Elisabeth Renger passed away peacefully in Munich, Germany on Wednesday May 15, in her 75th year. Her last breaths were taken in the company of both her daughters, with her favourite music playing in the background. Predeceased by her parents Gerardus Bernardus Bartholomeus Renger and Dina Sara Petronella van den Berg as well as her siblings Gerrit Renger (Tootje) and Mien Hardenberg (Peter). She will be sadly missed by her daughters Teresa (Patrick) and Anita (Rich), grandchildren Kaitlyn, Tyler and Kieran, her former spouse Gys, her siblings Wim (Ineke), Nelly (Wim), Gerard (Pineke) and Nico, her nieces and nephews, as well as her many friends from all around the world. Elisabeth was born in Rijssen, Netherlands in 1943 and immigrated to Canada in 1968. She married Gys Van Barneveld in 1970 and they raised their children together for the next 22 years. She was a cherished mother and Oma, as well as an inspirational and devoted teacher, with a career spanning over 50 years in both the Netherlands and Canada. She received her teacher's certificate at the University of Utrecht, attained 2 Bachelor of Arts degrees at McMaster and then her Masters degree in Anthropology at Carleton. She spent 15 years teaching at St. Michael's Elementary school in Dunnville before moving with her family to Ottawa, where she taught at Fielding Drive for 10 years and then at Carleton Heights. She finished her career with the Canadian government as a Dutch, English and French teacher and tester. Elisabeth had a passion and a talent for languages (she spoke seven) as well as music and poetry. She was especially motivated to see the world and was an avid traveler. Her most recent trips were to China, Morocco and India - all of these while she was in her seventies! She was truly talented at storytelling, as both her grandchildren and former student can attest to. Countless classrooms and campfires have been enriched by her guitar playing and singing, and her adventurous spirit had touched people around the globe. She will be fondly remembered and very much missed by her family and friends. May the sight and thought of dolphins and butterflies continue to remind us of her smile and her determination. DAVIS, Lorna Grace (née Tomalty) 1926 - 2019 Lorna Davis finally succumbed, after a lengthy illness, on Saturday, May 4, 2019, at the age of 93. Loving wife of the late Basil. Devoted mother of Pamela Hassenklover (Wolf), and Murray (Holly). Cherished grandmother of Marianne, Stephen, Michael, David, Elizabeth, and James, and great-grandmother of Jacob and Tyler. Born in Brownsburg, Quebec, where her father worked for CIL, making ammunition for World War II. He died during an explosion in the factory, and her mother took on boarders to make ends meet. Mom, being the youngest in the family, studied hard, graduated from High School, and moved to Montreal, to become a registered nurse at the Montreal General Hospital. She married Basil Davis, a graduate of McGill University, and began a life with him. Together they had two children whom they raised in Montreal, and Rosemere. Mom became a widow after seventeen years of marriage, and from then on was a single mother of two teenagers. She got her degree, and ambitiously rose through the ranks of public health nursing, to become an administrator and a teacher of nursing at McGill University. Upon retiring, Mom moved to Ottawa, to be closer to her daughter and family. Over the years, she babysat and helped out on many an occasion, and she was a devoted mother and grandmother. Mom loved her friends, and was an active volunteer. Mom hasn't been herself these last few years, as her health continued to deteriorate. Mom moved into Unitarian House, and more recently Forest Hill, where she received excellent care. Thank you to everybody who looked after Mom the last few years. She was a truly great lady, and will be badly missed. A private burial will be held by Lorna's family, at a later date. Memorial donations to The Royal Foundation are appreciated. Rest in Peace Mom. DAECHSEL, Marjorie In her rich and varied life, Marj Daechsel touched many people with her good humour, unshakable optimism, resolve in the face of adversity and calm in the face of crisis. Family and friends will be honouring Marj with a Celebration of Life, at the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, 30 Cleary Avenue, on Sunday May 19th, starting at 2:00. The day before, Marj will be laid to rest in her family’s plot, at White lake Ontario with a private ceremony. If you wish to make a donation in memory of Marj, please consider the Multifaith Housing Initiative of Ottawa or the Unitarian House fund for homeless seniors. Her warm and welcoming smile touched everyone who knew Marjorie Jean Daechsel (née Loucks). The memory of that smile will endure following Marj’s peaceful passing, in her 94th year, on April 12, 2019 at the Ottawa Hospital, Civic Campus with her family by her side. The family is very grateful for the compassion shown by the staff of the Civic’s Intensive Care Unit and the personal support from close family friends Dr. Larry and Dr. Tammy. SAMUEL, George George Henry Samuel was born July 17, 1927 in Glasgow Scotland. He is the last of his generation. George died March 27, 2019. He is survived by his wife Matilda and their children, Hilary Samuel of Ottawa, Delwen Samuel, of London England, Douglas Samuel of Toronto, and two granddaughters of London England, Sylvia Nesbitt and Melissa Nesbitt. In lieu of flowers, you may make a donation to Parkinson Canada, or to the charity of your choice. ZIELINSKI, Lech Stefan Following a brave struggle with lung cancer, Lech Zielinski died on March 8, 2019 at the May Court Hospice, Ottawa. Lech was born in 1930 in Postawy, Poland. In 1939 Russia invaded Poland, seized their home and he, his brother and mother were deported by cattle car to Siberia. His father was in an internment camp in neutral Lithuania. After months travelling they arrived in N. Kazakhstan where they were set to making bricks from clay and straw. In 1941 came the Russian German war and Lech and the other refugees were forced to start travelling again. Over many months they made their way through Uzbekistan, Iran, Tashkent, Bukhara and Samarkand. They sailed down the Persian Gulf to Karachi where they stayed in a refugee camp for some months. The allied authorities were not sure what to do with all these women and children. Finally they were ordered to sail to Mombasa where they took a train to Kampala and a steam boat across Lake Kioga to Masindi, Uganda. Here in Masindi Lech was to spend nearly 6 years, the rest of the war and the rest of his childhood. He went to school, joined the scouts learnt to sail and learnt to play the mandolin. In 1947 he sailed for England where he joined his father and brother, completed his high school education and graduated from Regent Street Polytech. In London he met and married his first wife and had two children, Mark and Julie. In 1964 he was offered a place at Bell Northern Research Labs and sailed to Canada. While at Bell he completed his degree in Electrical Engineering. He and his first wife separated and subsequently divorced. He met and married his second wife Margaret, and in doing so acquired a second family of Kirsten, Simon and Jonathan. He did research in acoustics at Bell, later Nortel, until he retired. In retirement he did volunteer work for CESO in India, enjoyed his many grandchildren, played his mandolin, golf, tennis, bridge, and sailed. He and his wife hiked and travelled widely in the UK, Spain, Italy, Croatia, Eastern Europe, the USA, New Zealand and China. They cruised the Mediterranean from Istanbul, through the South Seas and around S. America. They spent their last 15 winters in Ajijic, Mexico. He had a wonderful retirement. DENIS, Ann Long-time member of the congregation Ann Denis passed away on Tuesday Feb 5, 2019 at the age of 70. There will be a Memorial Service followed by a Reception, was held on Sunday, March 3 at 2 pm at the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, 30 Cleary Ave. SMITH, Albert David Sr. April 28, 1933 - November 23, 2018 Albert Smith died in the Carleton Place Hospital after several weeks of failing health. He was born in Rahway, New Jersey, was the last survivor of nine siblings. He attended Virginia State University on a football scholarship, spent 25 years on the Rahway Police Force. He came to Canada in 1987, and became a Canadian citizen in 2001. He is survived by his wife, Margaret Duncan, his son, Albert Jr., his wife Judy, their daughter, son and granddaughter, and his sons Adam and David. He is also survived by his stepson Terrance Tisdale, his wife Jean, and their three sons. In 2007, Albert received a kidney from a brave friend in Ottawa, for which he was always very grateful. He supported the organ donation campaigns and, as a member of the Canadian Auto Workers, (now Unifor) he was a workplace health and safety activist, particularly for armored car workers. He and Margret presented the CAW Earth Day Program to area schools for a number of years. They were members of First Unitarian Congregation in Ottawa, and were involved in several NDP campaigns, as well. Still involved in sports, he was a popular, very loud, Little League Umpire in the greater Ottawa are for several years. Albert was treated, monitored and cared for by many health professionals during the past several years and wished to thank them sincerely; he was particularly grateful for the care he received at the Carleton Place Hospital. If you wish, donate to your choice of charity and, maybe, go to a Little League game next summer: cheer for the players and harass the umpire, but just a little bit. DEANE, Christine Irene (nee Lawson) 7 January 1920 – 29 November 2018 It is with gratitude for her long and “perfect in every way” life, that we announce the death of Christine Deane at 98. Born in Hespeler, Ontario, our mother died peacefully in the Ottawa Civic hospital after a brief illness. Predeceased by the love of her life, Kenneth Lloyd Deane, after 67 years of marriage. Christine will be missed by their three daughters, Gail Coy (Frank) of St. Catharines, Alexandra Devine (James) of Ottawa, Delilah Deane Cummings (Stephen Cummings, deceased) of London, Ontario; her dearly loved grandchildren, Frank, Graham, Bruce, Karen, Katherine, Janet, Miriam and David and her great grandchildren, Maxwell, Stewart, Allison, Bennett, Dylan, Lawson, Audrey, Christopher, Caisha and Kenneth. Predeceased by her three younger siblings, Audrey, Alexander and Margaret, Christine will also be missed by her many nieces and nephews. Christine was a member of the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa where she actively participated for over 60 years and cherished her many friends there. She was involved with many charitable and caring efforts, from the Red Cross during the early 1940’s, through the Guide movement, the Canadian Mental Health Association and others. Her passion for music was enjoyed with the Westboro Recorded Music Society, at the NAC since its opening and as happy listener to the music of family members. In retirement, extensive travel with Ken to Scotland and England, and to many countries in Europe, provided much joy and added to her ease in several languages. The International Association for Religious Freedom provided focus for some of those trips. A cottage here and many winters in Florida with family created a full and appreciated life. Cremation has taken place. Following her wishes, a family celebration will be held in late spring. HARRIS, Marjorie Ada (née Cameron) Born Feb. 20, 1919 in Toronto, Marjorie Harris died Oct. 23, 2018 in Wakefield, Quebec. Daughter of William Cameron & Agnes Bullen, sister of Barbara, mother of Peter, Stephen, Chris & Robert, Nana to Piper, Jess, Michael, Jonathan, Jason, Emily & David, ex-wife of Charles Harris. Pre-deceased by sisters Gwen and Hilary. She was active in Youth Hostels, Voice of Women, Planned Parenthood, and the Unitarian Church. A service will be held at the First Unitarian Church, 30 Cleary Ave. Ottawa, on Dec. 4, 6:30 PM. We wish the staff at the Wakefield Hospital residential ward and the Manoir de Wakefield many heartfelt thanks for their compassionate care. HENDERSON, Alastaire Mary Alastaire Henderson died peaceful, in Ottawa, on Sunday, July 15th, 2018, at the age of 70 after a courageous battle with cancer. Alastaire was a committed environmentalist, social justice advocate and cat lover who will be deeply missed by family and friends. Predeceased by her parents Eric Henderson and Evelyn (nee Leonard). Loving sister of Mark (Debbie), Jay (JoAnne) and Hildegarde. Cherished aunt of Erica (and son Ferguson), Avery, Valerie, Lana, and Christine. Friends are invited to visit at the Central Chapel of Hulse, Playfair & McGarry, 315 McLeod Street (at O’Connor) Ottawa, on Wednesday, July 18th from 7-9pm. Memorial Service to be held at the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, 30 Cleary Avenue on Thursday, July 19th at 10am. Reception to follow. Memorial donations to Nature Conservancy of Canada. Special thanks to the staff at Park Place who worked diligently to ensure her last weeks and months were comfortable. FRASER, Donald Ross January 3, 1927 - May 21, 2018. Donald Ross passed away peacefully on the evening of May 21, 2018 in Ottawa, with family by his side at the Ottawa General Hospital. Donald was the son of the late Reverend James Fraser and Rebecca (née Hogg). He was predeceased by his son, Ross Gordon, brothers Philip, Jim, John, Neil and sister Elizabeth. Missing him greatly are his wife, Auralie Fraser, his surviving children Donna Lee Fraser, L. Neil Fraser, Rebecca (Marcel) Georges, Douglas Fraser, Kathryn Sear (Dennis Metrunec), Scott Fraser, Cameron (Madeline) Fraser and Melanie Fraser-Dawson (Doug Dawson), his nine grandchildren and twelve great-grandchildren. Survived by his brother, Murray Fraser of Regina, and Alma McKinlay of Thornbury. He also will be missed by nieces, nephews, relatives, and countless friends around the world. Our deepest thanks go to the compassionate care of the staff at the Ottawa General Hospital. The family wishes to thank the professional care of PSWs, nurses and staff at the Perley Rideau Veterans' Health Centre. Most of all, the family extends their gratitude for the loving care from all the nurses and staff at the Unitarian House where Mom and Dad lived for 16 years until 2017. Donald's life will be celebrated on Saturday, June 2 at 5:30 p.m. at the Unitarian Church, 30 Cleary Ave, Ottawa, Ontario. Reception will follow. Memorial donations may be made in his honour to the Unitarian House of Ottawa. DENT, Thomas (Tom) Thomas Dent passed away peacefully after a long illness on May 6, 2017 at Unitarian House. Tom was born in Morecambe, Lancashire, England on March 23, 1923 to Thomas and Sarah Jane Dent. He grew up in Morecambe and joined the RAF in 1941 as a navigator with 148 Special Duties Squadron, a career in which he was very successful, never having missed a destination or erred in expected time of arrival. He immigrated to Canada in 1953. At this time he joined the Armoured Corps Militia, served as a squadron commander for eighteen years, and received the Canadian Decoration. He had a successful career with the Federal Government in the Department of Manpower and Immigration until his retirement in 1984. After a break of nine years, he served as a consultant in the Departments of Labour and External Affairs until 2000. Since his first retirement in 1885, Tom has been a volunteer in many areas as a 'Class Grandparent,' an Interpreter at the Canadian War Museum and as a member of numerous Boards of Directors, including the friends of the War Museum and Unitarian House. Predeceased by his first wife of 41 years Ann (Fisher), his brother Geoffrey, his sister Olive, and survived by a younger sister Myrtle, in Venezuela. Tom was loved and will be missed by his son Geoffrey (Judy) and daughter Jacqueline Ann (Gino), his seven grandchildren, fourteen great-grandchildren and by his beloved wife of 28 years, Veronika (Karsay) and his step-son Tom Karsay. After a private cremation, there will be a Celebration of Tom's life at the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, 30 Cleary Avenue, on June 4, 2017, at 2 p.m. MORRISON, Dan Alexander 1936-2017 Peacefully at the Civic Hospital just before sundown on April 8th, 2017, in his 81st year, with Elisabeth (wife) and Daniel (son) by his side. Emigrated to Canada in 1965 from New Zealand after one year in England. Taught Sciences in Petrolia, ON before settling in Ottawa, teaching Physical Chemistry at Algonquin College for over 30 years. A strong supporter of the Humanist movement in Canada, and involved in Peace, Environment, NDP, and social justice issues throughout his life. Member of the First Unitarian Congr. of Ottawa, where a Memorial service will be held on Friday, May 12th at 4pm. Donations in his name would be appreciated, to either: First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa or Canadian Humanist Publications. Published in The Ottawa Citizen on April 13, 2017. Guest book available here. KABAYAMA, Joan Eleanor (nee Mount) March 28, 1929 - January 19, 2017 Visitation will be at Tubman Funeral Homes, 403 Richmond Road in Ottawa on Friday, April 21 from 1-3 p.m. and 6-8 p.m. A service to celebrate Joan's life will be held on Saturday, April 22 at 10 a.m. at First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, 30 Cleary Avenue with reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be directed to Amnesty International. Her obituary is available here. WRIGHT, John (Jack) Ross, Ph.D 1928 - 2017 Peacefully at Ottawa Grace Manor on February 12,2017 aged 88. Only son, between sisters Lois and Catherine, of the late Harry and Ena Wright of Keene, Ontario. Mourned by his extensive family in Canada, U.S., U.K., and Mexico, classmates OAC '53, his congregation, his many friends and colleagues, and fondly remembered as a kind, generous, gentle man of action, wisdom, integrity, and good humour. Jack held degrees in Horticulture (BA), Recreation and Planning (MA) and a doctorate in Planning. Devoted dad, stepdad, grandpa, brother, uncle, in-law, and husband, Jack was an accomplished athlete, academic, community planner and consultant. Over his long, productive career, among many roles, Jack served as Superintendent of Parks and Recreation, Edmonton (1957-1965) and as professor, consecutively, at universities of Guelph and Ottawa (1967-1972 -1996). There will be a Celebration of Life ceremony and reception for Jack, 11 a.m. Friday 21 April at First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, 30 Cleary Avenue. WHELAN, Muriel Helaine Passed away peacefully on Monday, February 6, 2017 at the age of 90. Born in London, England in 1926 she lived more than half of her life in Ottawa building wonderful friendships from her long-term involvement in the TV Industry, through Subud and the Unitarian Church, and various charitable pursuits. She was married twice, first to Douglas Green and then later to Robert Whelan. She is survived by her daughter Diane or Leanna, her son Stephen, her daughter-in-law Leslie and her grandchildren Martin and Heather. A celebration of her life will be held will be held at the Unitarian Church located at 30 Cleary Avenue, Ottawa on Sunday, February 19, 2017 between 3 p.m. and 5 p.m. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to The Stephen Lewis Foundation. ERSKINE, Marilyn Elaine (Lynn) (nee Bushnell) R.N., BNSc Peacefully in hospital on Monday, December 26, 2016 at the age of 85 years. She was the wife of Blair and beloved daughter of Ernie and Edna Bushnell. Loving mother of Gord, Geoff (Barbara Joe), and Judy. Dear grandmother of Zak and Graham, Jennifer, Jamie and Campbell, Kelly. A memorial service, followed by a short reception, will be held on Saturday, February 18 at 3:00 p.m. at First Unitarian Church of Ottawa, 30 Cleary Ave. GODDARD, Peter Gilling “Pete” (August 13, 1953 - October 15, 2016) Left us suddenly and too early with dignity and love, while walking the autumn trails of Shaw Woods with the Mississippi Valley Field Naturalists and his brother, Allan. Third son of his late parents Elizabeth Anne Goddard (Macdonald) and Raymond Gilling Goddard of Smiths Falls. Survived by brothers John (Debbie), Allan, David (Nancy), sister Jennifer (Grant), Barbara (and husband) Kathy, nephews Graeme (Emily), Geoffrey, nieces Naomi (Andrew), Keenan Anne (Adam), friend Caroline and especially the twinkles in his eyes, Zoey Elizabeth and Winston Gilling. Pete served with dedication, the Boy Scouts of Canada for over 40 years in various capacities of teaching, instruction, leading and managing. He instructed and led outdoor activities at the Bill Mason Center and recently retired from active outdoor field management and instructing with the Rideau Valley Conservation Authority. He was an active and caring member of the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa. Dear Peter, so fondly missed by his loving family and so many friends and especially by brother Allan, room-mate, friend, brother. In memory of Pete, please plant a tree, save one, contribute to his beliefs. He cared so much about the world in which we live. A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, November 26 at 4:30 PM in First Unitarian Congregation, 30 Cleary Ave., Ottawa. Dress casual. BEMI, Shirley May (nee Booth) Slipped away peacefully on September 4, 2016 at the age of 88. Shirley was born in Winnipeg, Manitoba in 1928 and moved to Ottawa in 1952 with her former husband George Bemi. For over twenty years she worked for Ottawa Social Services while raising her three children. Shirley is survived by her son Gary (Carol), daughter Laurie (Gary), daughter-in-law Jan, five grandchildren and one great-grandson. She lost her eldest son Jim to cancer in 2012. She was a keen sailor and a long-time member of the Britannia Yacht Club. A Celebration of Life will be held at the Britannia Yacht Club on September 23 at 2:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Unitarian Church would be appreciated. (First Unitarian Church, 30 Cleary Ave Ottawa K2A 4A1). The family wishes to extend their gratitude to the May Court Hospice for their support in her final days. TURNBULL, Joyce Christine October 17, 1924 – July 23, 2016 Joyce was born in Springhill, Nova Scotia daughter to the late Jack (JC) and Mable Nicholson. She was predeceased by her brothers Fraser (Shirley), Bud (Betty) and Peter (Muriel). She is survived by her daughter Janet, grandchildren Ryan (Haleigh) and Theresa and many relatives and friends. She was a graduate of Dalhousie University and a dedicated Social Worker for the Children's Aid Society of Ottawa. A memorial service will be held at The First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa on Saturday, August 27, 2016 at 10am. GERLEY, Lyn Lyn passed away peacefully in her 86th year surrounded by her family. Loving mother of Chris (Joe) and Steve (Cecilia), she will be deeply missed. Lyn was also extremely close to her brother, John, who passed away earlier this year. She is fondly remembered by her niece Catherine Beckingham and her great-nephews Kaelen and Eli, her niece Sue Beckingham (Mark Swim), her nephew Jim and sister-in-law Cathy Cavanaugh. Lyn was active in many areas that she deeply cared about including the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa and its Caring Committee. An accomplished bridge player, Lyn enjoyed many hours playing in various bridge clubs. Her many friends will miss her warm heart, generosity and great sense of humour, and her loss will be greatly felt. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Parkinson Society will be greatly appreciated. COUSINS, Valerie October 7, 1948 - March 20, 2016 Valerie Cousins lived a life of integrity, compassion and courage. After graduating from Fisher Park High, Valerie went to Teachers College and then began her teaching career at Ottawa's Agincourt Public School. Although teaching would be a lifelong passion for Valerie, she wanted to broaden her horizons. Her brother George, who had attended Carleton and MIT on scholarship, encouraged her to apply to Wellesley College, not far down the road from MIT and he offered to help financially. And this is how Valerie came to enter the inner sanctum of one of America's elite, female, universities. CRAIB, Prudence Wheeldon Died on February 13, 2016, in the company of and supported by her beloved spouse of 37 years, Patricia Hill, her son Brian Craib Wheeldon (June), her daughters Laura Hill and Barbara Hill, and granddaughter Jenna Hill-Murphy. Lifelong friends Maureen Fraser and Sally Wills also provided loving support during the year long challenges posed by myelodysplasia (cancer of the bone marrow). Prue is also survived by her dear brother Philip (Rose) who live in South Africa. Prue was born in 1932 in South Africa to loving and liberal parents. She studied Social Anthropology at the University of Cape Town, and taught this discipline at the University College of Rhodesia and Nyasaland in Harare for a decade before immigrating to Canada in 1967. Thereafter she taught Sociology at Simon Fraser University in BC and Trent University in Ontario, in the mature student sections of these universities whenever possible. In her final professional decade, she worked on management training in the halcyon days of BNR and Nortel. After retirement, she volunteered for a sustained period in the early 2000's at the First Unitarian Congregation in Ottawa, and more recently with the LGBT Ottawa Senior Pride Network. She was a voracious reader and pursued a rich set of crafts and arts over her lifetime, including clothing design, quilting, stained glass, and calligraphy, all at which she excelled. In the last five years, Prue loved her art lessons with Val Roos and was an ardent painter. Prue and Pat created a blended family when they joined forces in 1978 and the family remains strong and lovingly supportive, especially in the final period of Prue's life. The family wishes to acknowledge with profound gratitude the health services proved by Dr. M Sabloff and Leah of the Ottawa General Hematology Department, and Dr. Cross, Dr. Bright and their colleagues at the Ottawa Palliative Care Network. She was given respectful and compassionate care by the wonderful staff of May Court Hospice in her final days, for which we are also deeply grateful. In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate contributions to Hospice Care Ottawa - May Court Hospice, 114 Cameron Ave. Ottawa Ontario K1S 0X1. She will be sorely missed. There will be a Celebration of Life on Friday, April 22, 2016 at 11:00 a.m. at First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, 30 Cleary Ave. A reception will follow the service. BASSETT, Margaret Jean (nee Brown) Our beloved mother, grandmother and great- grandmother passed away peacefully on February 13, 2016 at her home in Ottawa, Ontario. She was in her 91st year. Jean was born in Tomahawk, Alberta on June 3, 1925, the eldest daughter of Alberta pioneers David and Eva Brown. She is survived by her sisters Edra and Zeta and her brother Doug. She was predeceased by her brothers Jim and David. In 1950, Jean married the love of her life, Douglas Alexander Bassett, who predeceased her in 1985. Jean is survived by her daughters Kathryn Ann Anderson (Hans Schwerdel) and Beverly Joyce Bassett-Peever (Tom Peever), and her son Douglas Alexander Bassett (Yoshie Bassett). Jean also has nine grandchildren Alison, Jennifer, David, Joshua, Matthew, Emma, Erin, Julia and Lisa, and seven great-grandchildren Ava, Victoria, Lily, Claira, Maeve, Aidan, and William that she loved with all her heart. Jean was the first woman to graduate from Ryerson Institute of Technology in a technical discipline. She had a long and varied career in the Public Service. After she retired, she obtained an honours degree in Fine Arts (1994) from Ottawa University. She was an artist in her own right. Her paintings are cherished by friends and family. In lieu of flowers, the family requests in memoriam donations to Westboro Community Support or to MIRA Foundation which were both close to her heart. Tributes, condolences, and donations may be made at tubmanfuneralhomes.com. A memorial service for friends and family will be held Saturday, March 26, 2016 at 11:00 a.m. at First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, 30 Cleary Ave. A reception will follow the service. RHEAUME, Linda Elizabeth December 28, 1948 – January 30, 2016 It is with deep sadness that we announce the sudden passing of Linda Rheaume on January 30, 2016. Linda was predeceased by her mother, May Smart and her sister, Lucy Rheaume. She is survived by her son, Cole Rheaume and her brother, Richard Rheaume. Born in Vancouver, British Columbia, Linda had a keen intellect as a Mensa candidate and went on to compete for her high school on the well-known Canadian quiz show competition, Reach for the Top. Linda obtained a Bachelor of Arts degree in Sociology from McGill University and enjoyed a career working as a writer and researcher for Tourism Canada. In addition to her professional pursuits, Linda had an extensive history as a volunteer and social activist, involved in campaigning for the New Democratic Party of Canada, founding the Psychiatric Survivors of Ottawa, and a board member of the Civil Liberties Association to mention a few. Above all, Linda’s wonderful sense of humor, love for good political conversation, nurturing disposition, and commitment to helping others whenever the opportunity arose, led to an abundance of long-term friendships which she held dearly. A celebration of Linda’s life will be held at the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa 30 Cleary Ave on Sunday, February 7th at 3:00 pm. A reception will also take place in Burnaby, B.C. on March 5th at Ocean View Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, a donation may be made to the Psychiatric Survivors of Ottawa. JEFFREY, Anne MacKinnon Died peacefully at Queensway Carleton Hospital at age 89. She was predeceased by her sister, Catharine MacKinnon Read. She is survived by her husband of 66 years Dr. James Ian Jeffrey; proud mother of Janet (Art Huber), Allan, George (Jean), and Laurie (Hans Wytenburg). Loved by grandchildren: Jordan and Nolan; Scott, Ben, Jake, and Tyler; Kristy-Anne, Alex, Kathryn, and Carolyn; and great-grandson Crosby. Her wisdom, humour and hugs will be missed. Private interment. Donations to Unitarian House. PALMER, Arthur Robert October 9, 1926 - November 22, 2015 Peacefully at home, lovingly cared for by partner Mary Simpson. Predeceased by wife Ursula (Schwedler) in 2001. Will be greatly missed by daughter Barbara (Peter Rousseau) and grandchildren Andrea and Scott. Born and raised in Ipswich, Suffolk, England, Arthur emigrated to Canada in 1957 and moved to Ottawa in 1983. He completed his PhD in Metallurgy in 1971 and was an life member of the Canadian Institute of Mining and Metallurgy. In his retirement, he was a very supportive member of the Unitarian Church and contributed to numerous organizations and causes. Many thanks to the home care team, especially Joan. A celebration of Arthur's life will be held at 2pm on Monday, December 7th at the Unitarian Church, 30 Cleary Ave., Ottawa. Donations to the First Unitarian Congregation would be appreciated. CURTIS, Marion Louise "Mary Lou" (nee Siems) November 14, 1933 - November 22, 2015 Mary Lou Curtis passed away surrounded by family. Beloved wife of the late Bert Curtis (January 2, 2015). Predeceased by daughter, Wendy. Lovingly remembered by daughter Marjorie (Andrew), stepson Ted (Jeannine), and grandchildren Gabriel, Pilar, and Chloe. Mary Lou will also be missed by Susan and Gerard, friends who lovingly cared for her, especially since her health declined. Mary Lou began her career as an elementary school teacher. After raising her family, she earned a Certified General Accountant (CGA) designation, for which she was particularly proud. As a master organizer, she was a valued volunteer in her community and at the Unitarian Church. From planning events to planting her herb garden, every undertaking was performed with enviable precision. Whether in Vancouver, Ottawa or Thunder Bay, Mary Lou and Bert's home was always a welcoming place where friends could enjoy drinks and delicious meals. The family extends their gratitude to the many staff and healthcare workers who cared for Mary Lou over the last twelve months. True to Mary Lou's character, she chose to have her body donated to the University of Ottawa. A Memorial Service will be held at the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa Church, 30 Cleary Ave, Ottawa, on Friday, November 27 at 2:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations greatly appreciated to Sick Kids Foundation, 525 University Avenue, 14th floor, Toronto, Ontario, M5G 2L3. Please direct your donation to cancer research. CASSIDY, Maureen Maureen Cassidy Oct 6, 1937 - Oct 21, 2015 Peacefully, in the loving embrace of her family, Maureen Cassidy (nee Waddington), passed away on Oct. 21, two days after suffering a massive stroke. Born in Bolton, Lancashire, UK, Maureen grew up in London, studied at Homerton College, Cambridge, (Teaching Cert); Carleton U (BA, Hon, Psych); U of Toronto (M Ed). She taught at the Remedial Reading Ctr, (Toronto), Turnbull Learning Ctr (Ottawa), Ottawa Torah Inst, and as private tutor, re-teaching brain injury victims to read. An ardent NDP supporter, Maureen worked hard for the cause both for her husband's nominations and for successive nominees. A former Orpheus Choral Society member, Maureen loved choir singing, oil painting, Stratford Theatre, & Museums. Survived by her husband Michael Cassidy (former Ottawa Ctr Alderman, NDP MPP & Provincial Leader & MP), children: Ben (Kim Menard-Cassidy), Adam, Matthew; and beloved grandchildren Joshua, Tobias, Grace (Mayhew), and Gabriel (Seale-Cassidy). A visitation will be held at Unitarian Church, 30 Cleary Ave, Thurs, Oct 29th, 2-4:00 PM and 7-9:00 PM. A Celebration of Life will follow at Unitarian Church on Sunday, Nov 1st at 2:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Heart & Stroke Fdn or the Royal Ottawa Foundation for Mental Health are appreciated. Published in The Ottawa Citizen from Oct. 27 to Oct. 28, 2015 CRIDDLE, Ernest Edward Peacefully at the Glebe Centre, on Tuesday, March 17, 2015 in his 85th year. He leaves behind his partner of forty years, Rosemary Bonyun, children Penelope McCann (Clair), Chris (Marjory), Michael (Sandra), Audrey Mayes (Perry) and Andrew (Kathleen), grandchildren, great-grandchildren and many nieces and nephews. Ernie will be remembered for his long service with DREO and as a dedicated volunteer to many organizations especially The First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa and Scouts Canada. The family wishes to thank the staff at the Glebe Centre for their care and compassion. Family and friends are invited to attend a Memorial Service at the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, 30 Cleary Avenue, on Saturday, March 28 at 1 p.m. For those wishing, donations may be made to The First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, the Parkinson Society or the Glebe Centre. Condolences/Tributes/Donations at: www.hpmcgarry.ca, 613-233-1143. Published in The Ottawa Citizen on Mar. 21, 2015 Published in The Ottawa Citizen from Nov. 25 to Nov. 26, 2015
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What Our UU Kids are Doing This Sunday This Sunday, and next Sunday, after Time for All Ages, our UU Kids will gather for whole group "Welcome to RE” activities. This Sunday's activities will centre on our UU values of Justice, Interdependence, Generosity, and Love! Our new thematic RE program “Woven Faith” will start on Sunday, October 4th. Parents: Please join us from 9:30am to 10:15am, on Sunday September 27, in the NOW Room to discuss our new volunteer initiative and thematic programing. You will have an opportunity to fill out our 2026-2027 program registration. An activity will be provided for the children. Meet Our Religious Exploration Team Youth Programming (ages 11-17) Our Whole Lives - Sexuality Education Program Our Vision: We at First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa strive to be a welcoming and diverse multi-generational Unitarian Universalist community that fosters the spiritual development of all ages. Our Mission: Guided by the Unitarian Universalist Principles and Sources, the RE program provides a safe, welcoming, and inclusive environment to learn, grow, and explore individual spirituality. What to Expect on a Sunday Morning Each Sunday we gather together to share some time learning, reflecting, asking questions, playing and getting to know each other in our religious community. We seek to provide a nurturing atmosphere safe and caring spaces where the spirit of each child and youth will blossom and grow. Sunday mornings we normally offer two classrooms the Rainbow Room for children ages 2-6 and the Chalice Room for ages 7-12. (Some programs are run with different age groupings.) Babies under 2 are welcome to stay in the service or come downstairs to the Rainbow room with a parent. Youth older than 12 are welcome to stay in the service. Let's Talk About ValUUes - With Jodi! Play Video Facebook Twitter Pinterest Tumblr Copy Link Link Copied Service begins at 10:30. Most Sundays, everyone gathers together in Worship Hall - check the eUU to find out whether this Sunday is an exception. After welcoming and some opening words, the children are asked to gather at the front for the time for all ages. Afterwards they are sung out by the congregation and proceed downstairs to their room. Parents remain in the service, or are welcome to accompany their children downstairs. When service has ended, parents collect their children by 11:45. For More Information If you would like more info on Religious Exploration or be added to our RE Newsletter list let us know by emailing dre@firstunitarianottawa.ca . Introducing J.E.T.P.I.G! Jetpig is a portly porcine passionate about Unitarian Values. By the power of his jetpack, fueled by love, Jetpig travels the galaxy spreading the values of Justice, Equity, Transformation, Pluralism, Interdependence and Generosity. Jetpig came to us and planted the seed of Unitarian values in the gardens of our hearts through a series of Time for All ages in the spring of 2024. The older children in the Chalice room then explored these values more deeply in their RE classes each Sunday. Goals of Religious Exploration In our ministry with children and youth, we strive to: BUILD COMMUNITY : create an atmosphere where children and youth feel safe, welcome, connected, able to talk about important things in their lives; be a place where they like to come and where they can serve, KINDLE THE FLAME: encourage children and youth to learn more about themselves and to be continuous seekers with a sense of wonder, SHARE KNOWLEDGE: teach children and youth about their congregation and their religion, Unitarian Universalism, CULTIVATE OPEN MINDS: develop an appreciation for the diversity of people and religious beliefs in the world, and RAISE AWARENESS: help children and youth become aware of the needs of others, our connection to the Earth, and of their power to create change.